How Many Times Have I Missed Blessing Another?

My friend had been on my mind for quite some time. It had been weeks since she’d been moved to her new room in the memory-care wing and I had yet to see it.

But that morning? That morning I had so many errands to run and lots of editing when I got home!

My visit will just have to wait, I reasoned.

Yet as I drove away from the home, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I needed to turn around. The Lord seemed to be impressing upon me the next right step, not the one I had planned for my morning.

This time I listened to that still small voice. Turning the car around in the nearest parking lot, I headed back to see my elderly friend.

My visit was short but meaningful, bringing blessings far beyond what “getting things done” would have yielded.

In fact, I don’t remember what my errands were that morning or if I even got them done. But I still remember my friend’s smile, the encouragement I was able to give her, and the joy I felt as I left her.

Missed Blessing

Not too many years ago, I “visited” too late. My neighbor died before I made that promised and planned for “someday” stop. 

I vowed to do better. Yet here I am. Still stumbling under the weight of to-do instead of to-be-present. Still setting aside relationship for accomplishment. 

Perhaps today I heed the Lord’s nudge a bit more often, but, oh, how often I still ignore those gentle prompts.

I hate to guess how many times I miss blessing another because I believe I’m too busy or have nothing of value to say.

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It’s easy to make excuses.

I must get this done. That can’t wait. She’ll understand. I don’t know what to say. I’ll visit next week. 

Next week is as good as never. I know because I’ve used “next week” often in my excuses. 

Today is the day. Now is the time.

Visit the shut-in. Send a card to the hurting. Call that absent friend.

You don’t have to be or do all for them. Just be present. Just be the present. Just show up. 

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That’s all my elderly friend wanted. And honestly, it took less than 30 minutes for me to be present. 

I won’t meet everyone’s needs, and I’m not supposed to.

But I can show up in the lives of others on a more regular basis.

I can share God’s love through my actions of love. 

I can let the people in my life know I care.

And to know someone cares is one of the greatest blessings any of us can receive. 

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“Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:4 

Reflections: How can you be more present for others? Who do you need to drop that overdue note to? Who do you need to visit today?

I am always thrilled to link up with Suzie Eller for #livefreeThursday and this week’s prompt, “just show up.” I love these special linkups. They provide an abundance of great inspiration and encouragement all in one place. Click on the image below or link above to check them out.