Enjoying the Process, Not Just the End Result

As a teenager and young adult, I used to thrive on process. Sure, I wanted to complete a task, but I soaked in the steps along the way as well.

For example, there was much joy to be had in, not only knowing the haymow was full of hay, but in the process of working together to fill it.

I felt satisfaction as I gazed upon the full-grown heifers I had affectionately tended to, but more appreciated caring for them as they grew from just-weaned calves.

A trail cleared of poison ivy, nettles, and poison parsnip looked inviting, but whipping them down with a hand weed-whip brought more pleasure.

Somewhere along the line, though, my attitude changed. Life became extremely busy. Endings took on meanings of their own.

I no longer took the time to appreciate the process of going somewhere or accomplishing something.

It became all about “getting” there.

While raising my children, I tended to get excited for the next stage in their development, instead of resting where they were. I tried not to hurry their childhood along, but something inside burned for that accomplishment.

Learn to Appreciate the Journey

Surprisingly, it took several years of vacationing to help me redevelop an appreciation of the journey itself.

Our vacations almost always consist of long drives. This means a considerable amount of time  spent in the process of getting to or from the destination.

For a few years, I’d come home from family trips dissatisfied and surly because so much time involved the journey, not the destination itself.

Finally, one year I woke up to the fact that I was squandering my life by only focusing on an end.

I decided to re-embrace my younger self’s attitude of loving the “doing,” not just the “done.” This resurrected attitude has allowed me to appreciate life to a much greater extent.

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In the past week, I traveled more than 1,800 miles by car. And the trips weren’t exactly leisurely, sightseeing excursions. They had a purpose in delivering my son to college safely and in a timely manner (and to participate in the send-off ceremonies).

I could have easily chalked up the nearly 40 hours I spent in the vehicle as a waste. Sadly, many do just that (as I had at one time). Instead, I used the time to connect with my children to various degrees, work on other projects, laugh, and spend time in the Word.

It’s not a perfect science, and I catch myself longing for an end at times. Yet, I only need to look at my grown son to be reminded of the importance of enjoying each journey.

Whether it’s a long drive or raising children, don’t concentrate your sights on the finish line only. Instead, cultivate the habit of enjoying the journey.

Because there are treasures to unearth during the process itself.

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Treasures that are often masked by the hurricane speed we live our lives and our drive for accomplishment.

“It is also the gift of God whenever anyone eats, drinks, and enjoys all his efforts” (Ecclesiastes 3:13).

Reflections: Do you find yourself getting anxious about reaching the end of a trip or activity? Would you prefer to skip the middle and jump straight to the end? Do you feel a need to restructure your attitude to more fully appreciate the process, not just the end?

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