Something to Remember When You Feel Unimportant

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Some seasons and some situations cause us to feel unimportant in the grand scheme of things. What we do with those feelings matter.


The call came unexpectedly. “Do you want to be done?”

As I digested the question, my answer came slowly. Yes and no. Covid-19 was spreading. I had one month left to work at a funeral home and was now being asked to quit sooner. I knew the risk of working in an essential business, one that would potentially require those I worked with (funeral directors) to come in direct contact with people who had died from the virus. Yet, I felt conflicted. 

We weren’t sure how our daughter would handle the virus. Given her disabilities, likely not well. But truth be told, I felt important (and informed) working in a field that would unfortunately, but likely, play a big role in preventing spread of the virus.

life worthy meaningful

A Part of Something Big and Important

After saying yes, I needed to be done, I felt a sadness … a loss. Processing that later, I realized I liked feeling needed. I liked feeling important. As a caregiver for my 21-year-old daughter, there are restrictions on my time and travel. And sometimes, I feel unimportant in the grand scheme of things.

I want to make a difference with my life. I want to feel a part of something big and important.

My unrest threatened to blind me to the blessings and opportunities of my current reality. So I began reminding myself that although I don’t always feel it, I am a part of something significant. I am a part of God’s plan. I am an instrument in His hands. And that’s always big and important!

In my current situation I don't always feel it, but I am a part of something significant. I am a part of God's plan, an instrument in His hands. That's always big and important! Share on X

From Unimportant to Worthy and Meaningful

As a homebound person, a caregiver, a socially isolating teacher, a behind-the-scenes worker, or even as a pastor of a church or an executive in a large corporation, are you feeling unimportant in your role? If so, please receive these reminders that are helping me during this season:

  • Created in God’s image, every human possesses value.
  • Every life lived in the service of the Lord holds great purpose; i.e. great importance.
  • A life surrendered to God, to do as He wills, is a life lived well. 

Created in God's image, every human possesses value. Every life lived in the service of the Lord holds great purpose. A life surrendered to God is a life lived well. Share on X

Serve the Lord

We each play a role in God’s plan. Whether great or small in the eyes of man, our current station in life is worthy and meaningful to the Lord. 

We each play a role in God's plan. Whether great or small in the eyes of man, our current station in life is worthy and meaningful to the Lord. Share on X

“And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him… Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ” (Colossians 3:1723-24).

Reflections: Are you feeling unimportant in your current role? If so, reread the Scripture verse above and remind yourself that you are an instrument in God’s hands. Now name one way you are serving the Lord in your current situation. Share it with us in the comments. And if you can’t think of one, share that in the comments as well, so we can help encourage you.   

 

By His Grace,

Julie

3 Comments

  1. cecelialester on May 7, 2020 at 12:12 pm

    Julie: You are doing the most important job known to this world. You are a mother. Some friends of mine and I are abiding by the rules of sheltering-in-place because each of us have husbands who are compromised with health issues. You made the right decision for you and your daughter. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

  2. Denise Withers on January 15, 2025 at 5:55 pm

    I retired and am alone but I volunteer five days a week at the local Senior Center and deliver meals to homebound people. I use to be over the program but retired. I love it so much and it has a special place in my heart. So I got back five days a week and help deliver the meals. It makes my heart happy to know I’m helping someone but it gives me meaning for my soul.
    Thank you for this because I am really struggling with feeling needed or important right now. I am alone with noone but my dog and four cats. So I volunteer with meals, church, walk daily…try to stay busy. But it is hard when your alone, thoughts get in your head that shouldn’t be there. But I’m trying. Just trying to find my way I guess. Thank you for this post because I really needed to read these words today. Really struggling to feel like I matter in this world. Thank you so much.

    • Julie Sunne on January 16, 2025 at 8:40 pm

      My dear Denise, you have great value in the eyes of your Father and many others. What a tremendous blessing you are to those at the senior center and to whom you deliver meals! Fill your mind with the words of purpose the Lord says over you; such as, Ephesians 2:10, Jeremiah 29:11, Psalm 138:8, 2 Timothy 1:9, Psalm 139:16. Continue remaining active and around others, especially in church/Christian circles. Friends can become as close or closer than family. But most of all, lean on your Father, knowing He ordained your life with purpose until He calls you home. God bless you.

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Julie Sunne

Hello, I'm Julie, an imperfect wife and mother of four. Life in this broken world is not always easy. Yet, joy can be found in each day through the grace and mercy of the Lord Jesus Christ.

I find it's easy for our day's blessings to get lost in its happenings. But God's "mercies never end" (Lamentations 3:22) and His "grace is sufficient" (2 Corinthians 12:9).

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